At 25, I switched careers with no money, no confidence, and no guidance. This is my real story—from a struggling boy in Chennai to L&D Head and founder of GrowWithCareer. Learn the lessons that shaped my journey.
How I Switched Careers at 25 — And What Really Happened (My Real Journey + Lessons Learned)
By H. Suresh — Founder, Grow With Career
I am 42 years old today.
When I look back at my life, sometimes I wonder how a boy who grew up in a small, struggling house in Chennai managed to build a stable career, buy his own house, purchase his Hyundai i20 with pride, and help thousands of students through GrowWithCareer.com.
But trust me—nothing came easy.
I wasn’t born into a rich family.
I wasn’t a topper.
I wasn’t even confident in my early 20s.
I was born in 1983 in Chennai, in a poor family where life was simple but survival was difficult.
Growing up, dreams were a luxury we couldn’t afford.
There were days when I questioned whether any of this was possible.
But deep inside, I always carried a small belief:
“If I study well and grow my skills, I can change my life.”
That one belief became the foundation of everything.
Today, I am the Learning & Development (L&D) Head in a well-known organization, and I run GrowWithCareer.com, helping thousands of freshers choose careers, build skills, and get clarity in life.
But my journey was anything but smooth.
This is the truth.
This is what really happened.
This is how I switched careers at 25 — at the most confusing, emotionally heavy, and uncertain stage of my life.
🌱 My Early Life: A Simple Childhood Filled with Big Struggles
My childhood wasn’t bad, but it was tough.
We had:
- Limited money
- Very few opportunities
- No internet
- No mentors
- No exposure
- No clear idea of what “career” even meant
But we had something powerful—hope.
My family was supportive, but we were financially weak.
So from a very young age, I started working part-time:
- Carrying bags in small shops
- Assisting in tuition centers
- Working in small offices
- Helping wherever I got work
Not because I wanted to — but because I had to.
But these struggles unknowingly prepared me for the real world.
I learned early that:
✔ No job is small
✔ Hard work never goes waste
✔ Life won’t give you everything—you must earn it
These became lifelong lessons.
🌟 The Big Question in My 20s: “What Should I Do With My Life?”
After college, that famous fear hit me:
“What career should I choose?”
If you’re in your 20s right now, you know exactly what I’m talking about.
I was scared.
Confused.
Lost.
And broke.
Everyone around me seemed sure:
Engineering, IT, government jobs, family business…
But I had no clarity.
Just like many students who read our article
How I Chose My Career Path in My 20s,
I felt the exact same confusion — but even worse because I had no guidance.
🔥 My First Job: The Beginning… and the Shock
My first job was in a small office.
The salary? Barely enough to travel and eat.
But I was happy to have something.
Anything.
Because work meant learning.
However, the real shock came when I realized:
- I had no real skills
- I had no career growth path
- I had no mentor
- I had no idea what I wanted to become
This is exactly why today I continuously remind freshers in our
Career Growth Roadmap Guide:
“Don’t choose a job just for survival. Choose skills for your growth.”
Back then, I didn’t know this.
⚡ The Turning Point at Age 25 — The Career Shift That Changed My Life
I was 25 years old.
A crucial age in anyone’s life.
People talk about quarter-life crisis — I lived it.
I was frustrated with my job.
There was no growth.
No learning.
No excitement.
No financial security.
One evening, I remember sitting alone on Marina Beach, staring at the waves, feeling defeated.
And for the first time, I asked myself honestly:
“Is this what I want my life to look like?”
The answer was a loud NO.
That day, I made the decision to switch careers.
Not tomorrow.
Not next week.
That day.
But switching careers without skills is like jumping into the ocean without knowing how to swim.
I needed skills.
I needed clarity.
I needed direction.
And I had none.
📘 5 Real Incidents From My 20s That Completely Changed My Career Path
Here are the real, raw moments that pushed me forward.
📘 Story 1: The Day a Manager Told Me — “You Are Replaceable.”
In my previous job, my manager once told me casually:
“If you don’t improve, we can hire 10 people like you.”
It broke me.
But it also awakened something inside me.
I realized:
“If I don’t grow skills, my life won’t grow.”
This incident pushed me to learn communication, problem-solving, and leadership — skills I still use today.
📘 Story 2: My First Attempt at Learning English Communication
I used to hesitate speaking in English.
I made mistakes.
People laughed.
But I kept practicing.
Every single day.
Today, communication has become my strongest asset — something I teach others in our guide
How to Improve Communication Skills.
📘 Story 3: The Interview I Failed Miserably
There was an interview where I couldn’t answer even basic questions like:
- “Tell me about yourself”
- “What are your strengths?”
I walked out embarrassed.
But that failure shaped the entire future of GrowWithCareer.
Because years later, I wrote articles like
How to Answer Tell Me About Yourself,
so others don’t face what I faced.
📘 Story 4: The Day I Borrowed Money to Attend a Training Program
I didn’t have money.
But I borrowed ₹1,500 from a friend to attend a soft skills workshop.
That workshop changed EVERYTHING.
I learned:
- Presentation skills
- Corporate behavior
- Leadership mindset
It opened the door to the L&D world I never knew existed.
📘 Story 5: The Mentor Who Said Just One Line That Turned My Life
One of my seniors once told me:
“If you help people grow, your career will grow automatically.”
I didn’t understand it then.
But years later, when I became an L&D professional and founder of GrowWithCareer, that line became the foundation of my life.
🚀 How I Switched Careers at 25 — Step-by-Step
Here is exactly what I did:
1️⃣ I Identified My Strengths
I realized I was good at:
- Training others
- Explaining concepts
- Motivating people
- Communication
This was the first step.
2️⃣ I Learned New Skills
I couldn’t afford expensive courses.
So I learned through:
- Free workshops
- Friends
- Library books
- Observing seniors
Similar to what we teach today in
Free Websites to Learn Job Skills.
3️⃣ I Worked on My Personality
I improved:
- Speaking
- Dressing
- Attitude
- Confidence
These became my identity.
4️⃣ I Took a Risk — I Shifted to L&D
I applied for a junior training coordinator role.
Salary was less than my previous job.
But the growth was unlimited.
That was the real turning point.
5️⃣ I Built Expertise Over Years
Today, after 17+ years:
- I’ve trained thousands
- Built corporate training modules
- Became L&D Head
- Started GrowWithCareer
The career that once felt impossible became the career I love.
📊 Comparison Table: Before Career Switch vs After Career Switch
| Aspect | Before (Age 23–24) | After (Age 25+) |
|---|---|---|
| Salary | Low | Grown steadily |
| Confidence | Weak | Strong |
| Career Path | No direction | Clear roadmap |
| Skills | Basic | Professional |
| Growth | Stagnant | High |
| Opportunities | Very limited | Abundant |
🎯 Key Lessons I Learned in My 20s
Here are the biggest lessons from my journey:
Lesson 1: Your 20s Are for Learning, Not Earning
Focus on skills. Money will follow.
Lesson 2: No One Will Come to Save You
If you don’t take control of your life, no one else will.
Lesson 3: Communication is Your Biggest Superpower
Learn it early.
It changes everything.
Lesson 4: Failures Are Not Final
Every failure redirected me to a better path.
Lesson 5: Don’t Compare Your Journey
Everyone grows at their own pace.
✔ Checklist: Should You Switch Careers in Your 20s?
- Do you feel stuck?
- No growth?
- No learning?
- No motivation?
- Salary not increasing?
- Feeling disconnected from work?
If yes — you MUST switch.
Your 20s are the best time.
👍 Pros & Cons of Switching Careers
PROS
- New opportunities
- Better salary
- More growth
- Better alignment with your strengths
CONS
- Initial struggle
- Learning curve
- Temporary financial dip
But the long-term benefits are life-changing.
🏅 Editor’s Pick: Best Skills to Learn Before Switching Careers
- Communication
- Problem-solving
- Digital skills
- Leadership basics
- Resume + interview preparation
Learn them here:
Top Skills to Learn in 2025
❓ FAQs
1. Is 25 too late to switch careers?
Not at all.
It is actually the BEST age.
2. Should I prioritize salary or skills?
Skills first. Salary later.
3. Is career confusion normal?
Completely normal in your 20s.
4. Can I switch careers without experience?
Yes — if you learn the right skills.
5. What if my family doesn’t support my decision?
Prove your seriousness through consistent action.
6. How do I know which career is right for me?
Choose based on strengths → not trends.
7. How long will it take for results?
3–12 months depending on your effort.
🔥 Final Words — If I Could Do It, You Can Do It Too
I wasn’t special.
I didn’t have money.
I didn’t have connections.
I didn’t have guidance.
All I had was:
🔥 Hope
🔥 Skills
🔥 Hard work
🔥 Discipline
And that was enough.
Your 20s are not meant for perfection.
They are meant for exploration, mistakes, rebuilding, and growth.
If I, a simple boy from Chennai, can switch careers at 25 and build a meaningful life,
YOU CAN TOO.
Your future is waiting.
Take the first step today.
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